On that note, some may say I've become the typical ICU nurse--calloused, unfeeling, and unaffected by what is an extremely stressful situation for some. I have been a nurse for almost 5 years, and so I cannot deny that, to a point, it is true. During those few years, I have watched people pass away, have fought for lives, have wished with every fiber in my heart that I could release someone from this life, and have been a small part in miraculous recoveries.
I have been most affected by the young, tragic passings. Hence, a few things I am passionate about. Life is fragile. PLEASE don't think you are invincible. I understand I see the worst of what goes on and so only a small percentage of people actually experience the tragedies I see. With that, I also know that not one of my patient's families saw it coming. They were all blindsided.
I have watched in complete helplessness as a young wife, married less than a year, sobbed uncontrollably at the side of her husband. I've seen a teenage boy weep shamelessly outside the room of his father. I have heard the panic in a mother's voice as she was trying to make plans to get to the hospital before her daughter left this life. I don't know if I can convey the sorrow, pain, and desperation that accompanies these experiences.
Please wear a helmet! Make your family members wear a helmet! If your head could be smashed, PLEASE wear a helmet! If you insist on riding motorcycles, ATVs, long boards, skateboards, or something with a high risk of head injury, PLEASE wear a helmet! I know it's not "cool." I know it messes up your hair. I know you think I'm paranoid. I've seen what can happen. Also, DON'T ride in the bed of a truck. You are not restrained and have such a risk of serious injury if you fall out.
I am passionate about many things, but I felt strongly to share this. To the few who actually read the musings of a stay-at-home mom, I hope this may at least cause you to think...
1 comment:
I read your musings. Thanks!
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